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Finding my purpose

When I lost my wife through death in December 2005, I was faced with the challenges of raising three boys as a single parent, and at the same time coping with the loss of my mate.

During this time, I dealt with many emotions, how can I be a father and mother to my children, how do I deal with the grief of losing my wife. I was faced with many difficulties.

There were times when life brought enjoyment, and other times when life was so challenging that I wanted to give up and quit. During the difficult and unbearable moments, I made up in my mind to do something about it. I was not going to let this unfortunate situation take over me. I decided to use this terrible and devastating situation as a platform to rebuild my life. I realized that life is what you make it.

I spent many nights crying out to GOD for a strategy to overcome my situation. The strategy I got was that I need to accept my situation and take responsibility by conditioning my mind to make the right decisions. Then I mus…
He’s charming, handsome and debonair. She’s got all the right curves, long pretty hair and a smile to die for. The two of you have intercourse. But who did you sleep with last night? Furthermore, how do you know you’re not pregnant? In this intimate written piece, author Carl Mathis challenges you to not only take a deeper look at your natural relationships, but he asks you to consider intercourse with God, become pregnant with His baby, and even gift birth! Not only will you know who you had intercourse with, but you’ll know for sure you’re pregnant with purpose from someone who is sure to take care of His responsibility. Is the person you’re sleeping with really who you think they are?

Carl Mathis



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When trouble occurs unexpectedly, how do I handle it?

Let’s simplify this. What you think about the most will eventually be the dominant force in your thinking capability. This will be the result of which direction you are going to take, or whether you will accept the situation and move forward with your life. As we know, the children can make you lose your cool sometimes. Your spouse shakes you nerves one in a while. You job frustrates you a day or two, and so on and so on. But the question is how do you handle it?

1: Choose something that makes you smile and makes you happy--then think about it on a daily basis. By thinking about it, it will program into you thinking capability, which will transform into you action, as a result you attitude towards that situation will change.

2: Realize that you are not the only one with unfortunate situations and circumstances, so don’t be so hard on yourself. In most cases, your situation may be small compared to others.

Everyone has some kind of challenge in thei…

What is Palm Sunday?

Palm Sunday is the day Christians remember the "triumphal entry" of Jesus Christ entering into Jerusalem, exactly one week before His resurrection.

And when they drew nigh unto Jerusalem, and were come to Bethphage, unto the mount of Olives, then sent Jesus two disciples, Saying unto them, Go into the village over against you, and straightway ye shall find an ass tied, and a colt with her: loose them, and bring them unto me. And if any man say ought unto you, ye shall say, The Lord hath need of them; and straightway he will send them. All this was done, that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by the prophet, saying, Tell ye the daughter of Sion, Behold, thy King cometh unto thee, meek, and sitting upon an ass, and a colt the foal of an ass. And the disciples went, and did as Jesus commanded them, And brought the ass, and the colt, and put on them their clothes, and they set him thereon. And a very great multitude spread their garments in the way; others cut down branche…

What is life?

Life is precious and tender

It’s fragile like a baby in its infant stage. It needs to be handled with care and concern in order for it to blossom into something marvelous. It needs to be handled with love and tenderness. This may sound strange to a person who thinks that life would last forever, but reality ensures that we come into this small and complex place call the planet earth for a short time. And one day our number will come up and you have to depart into a different place. You must take care of yourself while you’re here.

One day you are here and the next you vanished into a total different glory. You need to make the most of the time that God allows vacation on this earth, because tomorrow is not promised, even for the wealthiest and most famous people. Take some time to enjoy life.

Life is like a notebook

Life’s notebook has limited pages inside it. Each page represents a specific day and time for a special task. You carry this book wherever you go, your everyday activiti…